Love: Such an Easy Game to Play
Jim Morrison, lead singer of The Doors, explains his idea of love by claiming, “Friends can help each other. A true friend is someone who lets you have total freedom to be yourself—and especially to feel. Whatever you happen to be feeling at the moment is fine with them. That’s what real love amounts to—letting a person be what he really is.” Love has many definitions, as it means something different to each person and in each circumstance in which it applies. Aside from Morrison’s definition which revolves solely around the friendship type of love, Oxford’s English Dictionary provides a broader definition, stating, “a feeling or disposition of deep affection or fondness for someone, typically arising from a recognition of attractive qualities, from natural affinity, or from sympathy and manifesting itself in concern for the other’s welfare and pleasure in his or her presence.” Love, however, also according to Oxford’s English Dictionary, can also mean “an abstract quality or principle.” Well then, what is love? Love is unquantifiable, obsessive, and elusive, an integral part of the human experience, and an enormous contradiction. It is a steep mountain. It is magic. It is relatable. It is compassionate. It is love.
Derived from the Old Saxon and Old German versions of the word “luga,” meaning inclination, love has been a commonly used word for centuries. Love as a general concept is rarely represented with one point-blank definition because everyone experiences it differently. It must be narrowed down to a less broad description. What one person considers love, may be what another person considers mere infatuation. In order to determine what it may be considered, an understanding of the different types of love must be established. Generally speaking, there are four different types of love: romantic, friendship, unconditional, and circumstantial. Romantic love being the most popular, many examples exist in popular culture, as...
Cited: "Discover the Story of English More than 600,000 Words, over a Thousand Years." Oxford English Dictionary. Oxford University Press, n.d. Web. 15 Oct. 2013.
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